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Difficult, only the first two thousand years, then it will feel better.
A.P. Chekhov
Such eminent scientists and philosophers as K.E. Tsiolkovsky, V.I. Vernadsky, A.L. Chizhevsky, V.F. Kuprevich are united by the understanding of man as a still growing "unfinished" being called upon to overcome his still far from perfect, contradictory nature , to reach a higher position in the world. Therefore, a modern person is not ashamed to admit both individual and global mistakes.
In science and technology, man has gone far ahead, but in love he has remained at the level of dense sexual and romantic irrationality. Psychological - psychotherapeutic avant-garde, with the powerful support of socionics, has advanced far in the field of scientific adequate perception of the phenomenon of love, now it is desirable that the main psychological and psychotherapeutic forces be pulled up to the positions reclaimed from the protracted "this secret is great" position. And after consolidation, we will all work together to rehabilitate true love and the psychological recovery of society.
Now we can confidently dispel the doubts of A.P. Chekhov: "Love is either a remnant of something degenerating that was once huge, or it is a part of something that will develop into something huge in the future, but in the present it does not satisfy, gives much less than you expect." Will definitely develop!

Another similar forecast and also from the 19th century was made by the philosopher M.O. Menshikov:
“Sexual lust, by its very nature, gives the most acute of pleasures; being brought up for millennia, as the main joy of life, it grows, it seems to me, into a special psychosis, which was not known to ancient mankind and will probably disappear in the future. "
More details:
Literature has played a huge role in the love cult. M.O. Menshikov. ;
Superstitions and the truth of love. M.O. Menshikov .

In the third millennium, it's time to part with the amorous and erotic delusions of previous centuries and in love, as in other types of knowledge, move along the civilized path of development. And a person to the already existing proud definition of Homo sapiens - a reasonable person, can add the honorable Homo amans - a loving person.

Loving another person is a virtue if love stems from inner strength, but it is a vice if it stems from a person's inability to be himself.
Friedrich Nietzsche

“Healthy and drug addicted love” M.Ye. Litvak

Love is like hunger, and like hunger it is evil for man.
A. Schopenhauer

"Love" neurotic. M.E. Litvak

Poor love is a mania. E. Pushkarev.

A large collection of articles and books about love addiction, which our culture often calls "addictive love" "overselective love" , "Neurotic love", "too much love", "more than love", "compulsive love", "toxic love", etc. and people suffering from these disorders.

Enough to endure, to suffer, to die from mania - a pathology that, by misunderstanding, was considered the highest gift for so long. It's time to move the kind, positive feeling of love from the list of "irrational and mystical" to the list of "Explore and enjoy the great good."
Therefore, the question posed in the title of the book - love, good or evil?

Right answers:

- love as a natural phenomenon - an exceptional good:

Natural love. E. Pushkarev

What is love. E. Pushkarev

The essence of love. E. Pushkarev

How love is viewed in socionics. E. Pushkarev

Compatible love, it's true love. E. Pushkarev

Friendship + Love = Filia. E. Pushkarev.

Culture of longevity of love. A culture of separation grief. E. Pushkarev

Examples of true love.

- love as an amorous aggressive new formation of culture - an old evil:

Louis Aragon lived a long life, for more than 30 years he was married to Elsa Triolet, a French writer, the younger sister of Lily Brik, who was V. Mayakovsky is hopelessly in love. Shares his wisdom in the poem "There is no love happy."

This is a malicious word "love". E. Pushkarev

Ecology of the culture of love. E. Pushkarev

"Romantic love": aspects, analysis and consequences. E. Pushkarev

Consumer society and its antilove essence. E. Pushkarev

Psychiatric confusion with love at school. E. Pushkarev

If to eliminate the confusion of love with pseudo-loves. E. Pushkarev

E. Pushkarev Chairman of the Internet Club "ENLIGHTED LOVE"

This is one of the chapters of the book "LOVE! GOOD OR EVIL? Psychological dimensions.
In it, I tried to collect and generalize the most modern knowledge about the nature of love.
It turned out: love is an extremely positive feeling. And a very similar falling in love with love has little in common. And poor-quality love, it is "drug-addicted love", "over-vibrational love" not only has nothing to do with love, but also a completely painful disorder. And learning to distinguish between them is not so difficult.

The most read articles on our site are:

Guide to the site and the main milestones in the knowledge of love. E. Pushkarev

Love test: "love scale" by Z. Rubin.

The essence of love. E. Pushkarev.

What is love. E. Pushkarev

Briefly about love. E. Pushkarev

Falling in love. E. Pushkarev

Man and woman: compatibility, love. E. Pushkarev

Man and woman: relationships. E. Pushkarev

Man and woman: leadership in love and marriage. E Pushkarev

Love! Good or bad? Psychological dimensions.

Sex positions from the point of view of ... psychology.

Sexuality, female and male orgasms.

and also sections:

Psychology of love.

Site map.

In our library of books and videos (which can be downloaded for free): "Love, family, sex and about ..." almost 500 storage units. There is also on the topic of this article.

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